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The contract between sunshine and the captain: first draw...

Updated: Dec 6, 2021

The Week-on-Week Contract between Sunshine and the Captain




Preamble:

This private contract is provided as a binding agreement, which defines in specific terms, the relationship and interaction between the Captain and Sunshine. This contract defines the personal relationship structure of the parties and is binding only by the integrity of the parties. This contract in no way supersedes the Laws of each country of destination, habitation or travel. This agreement is entered into voluntarily, both parties being fully informed, consensually, without coercion, or undue influence, with both parties agreeing to the conditions and stipulations set out herein.

The following are the terms of a binding contract between the Captain and Sunshine.


The fundamental purpose

The fundamental purpose of this contract is to allow Sunshine and the Captain to explore their sensuality and sexuality with due respect and regard for their needs, their limits, and their well-being.


The Captain and Sunshine recognize that this relationship is unique to them and is a primary relationship to any other relationship the Captain or Sunshine have with others. They agree that emotional monogamy is required in this relationship.


The Captain and Sunshine enter into this contract on the Commencement Date fully aware of its nature and undertake to abide by its conditions without exception.


This contract shall apply on a 24/7 basis and be effective indefinitely. Every EVEN week of the Year Sunshine will be written with a capital ‘S’, and referred to as Dominant. During the EVEN weeks of the year the captain will be written with ‘c’, and referred to as submissive. Every other day of the month sunshine will be written with a small cap ‘s’, and referred to as submissive, and the Captain will return to being the Dominant and regain his capital ‘C’.


Both parties accept that certain matters may arise that are not covered by the terms of this contract, or that certain matters may be renegotiated. Furthermore, it is expected that the Captain and Sunshine shall review this contract in its entirety on a quarterly basis to ensure they understand and agree to its content, rules, and agreed activities. In such circumstances, further clauses may be proposed by way of amendment. Any further clauses or amendments must be discussed, agreed, documented, and signed by both parties in person and shall be subject to the fundamental terms set out in this contract.

Everything in this contract must be read and interpreted in the light of the fundamental purpose and the fundamental terms set out in clauses.


Sunshine's Role

Sunshine agrees to open herself to the Captain in all ways. Sunshine agrees that, once entered into the Contract, her body and mind will be set free, “to be used as seen fit”, within the guidelines defined herein. Sunshine agrees to please the Captain to the best of her ability, in that Sunshine's body and mind now exists solely for the pleasure of The Captain and the pleasure The Captain provides for Sunshine.


Sunshine accepts the responsibility of the Captain's body, mind and worldly possessions, to do with as She sees fit, under the provisions determined in this contract. Sunshine agrees to care for the Captain, to arrange for his safety and his well-being. Sunshine also accepts the commitment to treat him properly, to train him, punish him, love him, and use him as She sees fit.


The Captain's Role

The Captain agrees to open himself to Sunshine in all ways. The captain agrees that, once entered into the Contract, his body and mind will be set free, “to be used as seen fit”, within the guidelines defined herein. The Captain agrees to please Sunshine to the best of his ability, in that the Captain's body and mind now exists solely for the pleasure of Sunshine and the pleasure Sunshine provides for the Captain.


The Captain accepts the responsibility of Sunshine's body, mind and worldly possessions, to do with as He sees fit, under the provisions determined in this contract. The Captain agrees to care for Sunshine, to arrange for her safety and her well-being. The Captain also accepts the commitment to treat her properly, to train her, punish her, love her, and use her as He sees fit.


Secrecy

All physical evidence of Sunshine's and the Captain’s awakenings will be kept in total secrecy, except for the publication on her blog where both Sunshine and the Captain agree on the content and visibility of the content. Any violation of this clause shall be cause to terminate this Contract, should the injured party wish it. The materials and physical evidence shall be kept under lock and key in a place acceptable to both parties.


Termination of Contract

This contract may be terminated at any time by The Captain or by Sunshine, except under special conditions explained within this contract.


Fundamental & General terms

Obedience

Obedience is, quite simply, following the orders of the Dominant regarding the wishes and needs of the submissive. This is the most obvious part of The Contract: The Dominant commands and the submissive will and must obey. The Dominant chooses very carefully which orders to give, taking into account the needs of the submissive and the development of her/his sexuality and well-being. The Dominant will control an area of the submissive's life, the obvious one being her/his sexuality. On the other hand, her/his professional/family life should be considered off limits.


Surrender

Surrender means that the submissive must be open physically and mentally to the Dominant. The dominant has the right to touch the submissive intimately whenever and wherever he/she wants. The body of the submissive is at His/Her disposal to enjoy and to stimulate with pleasure at His/Her discretion. This physical surrender is accompanied by a mental openness in which the submissive gradually reveals her/his secret fantasies, fears and desires. Again, sex is a good place to start, but this will naturally extend to other areas of the submissive's life. The Dominant will refrain as much as possible from judgment, because placing shame or guilt on the submissive would be a betrayal of her/his trust.

The ultimate surrender will take place during sexual intercourse. Here the submissive must abandon all scruples: the submissive is not having vanilla sex. The submissive is going to be fucked, with all the overpowering connotations that this entails. The submissive may be taken from behind, being denied the view of the face of the Dominant. The submissive may be tied up in an exposed position in which the submissive cannot deny access to the Dominant or the chosen other or even move to seek her/his own pleasure. The submissive may be forced to view her/his awakening in the mirror. The submissive may enjoy the fucking or she/he may dislike it, or both at the same time, at the will of the dominant.


Service

The submissive will work to please and satisfy the desires of the Dominant and by that hers/his. While surrender is mostly passive, service is proactive. Service also goes beyond mere obedience, because the submissive needs to anticipate the desires of the Dominant. From His/Her side, The Dominant will be mindful not to inhibit His/Her creativity by being over-controlling. Of course, the submissive needs to ask permission before performing the service, or should meekly suggest a course of action. Having the submissive well trained in service will allow the Dominant to relax and enjoy the relationship without having to be continuously on alert to decide what to do next.


Discipline

Discipline comprises a series of exercises by which the Dominant fully asserts His/Her control over the body and mind of the submissive to stimulate her/his awakenings. The most obvious way to do this is in a scene in which the Dominant puts the submissive through various stages of pain and pleasure until she/he becomes fully pliable to His/Her and her/his lust.

Yet discipline goes well beyond pain and pleasure. The Dominant will give the submissive a series of tasks and exercises that she/he must do in and out of his presence to train her/his sexuality or awakening. These can include, for example, sexual exercises or other forms of physical training; reading assignments; fixed sleep and wake up times; modifications in her/his diet; writing in a blog; working a certain amount of time with undivided attention, etc. Although some discipline exercises can be unpleasant, they are not done for punishment but to train the submissive and develop the submissive's pleasure.


Punishment

Punishment occurs because the submissive has to face the consequences of doing things wrong, evolving her/his sexuality or her/his happiness. This means that the Dominant will chastise her/him verbally and by imposing the performance of an unpleasant task.

This is a delicate subject because we live in a tremendously punishing society that since our infancy has exposed us to the guilt and shame associated with failure and disobedience. For this reason, the meaning of punishment has to be carefully adjusted from the start, emphasizing its healing value as catharsis and atonement. Indeed, punishment has fulfilling aspects. For one thing, punishment is a powerful way to assert the power that the dominant has received from the submissive and seeing that power expressed fills her/his mind with awe.

The other thing is the healing aspect. With the help of the Dominant the submissive brings to the surface the guilt and shame elicited not only by recent misbehaviour but also by flowering of her/his sexuality. The humiliation of the punishment erodes those negative emotions, polishing and purifying the ego.

Critical, is that the punishment ends with a time of aftercare in which the forgiveness of the Dominant induces the submissive to forgive herself. Any misdeed has been paid for and can be safely left in the past. The submissive can move forward in her/his life feeling clean, purified and free from guilt. The submissive has accepted her/his weaknesses and witnessed the power and enlightenment of the Dominant over her/him, things that have made her/him stronger as a person. Paradoxically, by surrendering to the Dominant the submissive has freed herself/himself from her inner demons.


Demeanour

Your demeanour is your outward behaviour. It includes the way you stand, the way you talk, your facial expressions, and more. Someone with a friendly demeanour might smile a lot and look you in the eye while talking to you.

Demeanour means that the submissive learns to carry herself/himself and behave in a way that expresses a sexual and open mental state. The appropriate demeanour will emerge from the personality of the submissive and is polished through training to produce a poise that conveys to the trained eye the depth and beauty of the submissive's service, discipline, surrender and obedience. The submissive's poise will make the Dominant proud.


Mind-Fucking

Mind-fucking consists of mind games that the Dominant plays with the submissive to bring the submissive to a state of defeat and surrender. This represents the culmination of the training into all the six other elements. It will be tailored to the personality of the submissive, to her/his state of mind in that precise moment, to find the submissive's points of resistance, her/his inner conflicts, and then bring the submissive face to face with them. The Dominant will give the submissive his full attention, focusing completely on reading the submissive. Mind-fucking will bring out the submissive's resistances, inner conflicts and unresolved problems, it can entail a spark of self-discovery, a step in a process of self-transformation.


Compersion

Compersion is a term used to describe a certain experience in polyamorous relationships. It is that moment of relational empathy, where the feelings of love and shared pleasure with one’s partner with another person overrides any feelings of jealousy.

An open relationship is one in which both parties aren't exclusively dating each other. In other words, both people are openly allowed to have other sexual and/or romantic partners.


The contract doesn’t stipulate an open relationship per definition where the Captain or Sunshine can freely interact with people not mentioned in the circumstances of the contract. When the terms ‘others’, ‘Appointees’, guests or any other reference to people not being the Captain or Sunshine are used, bear in mind that they are first a fantasy. The Captain nor Sunshine will ever interact sexualy with the Others, Appointees, or guests without their full consent and approval. If others or appointees are brought into a fantasy or real experience, they are of only use to the controlled pleasures of Sunshine and the Captain.


Basic rules

Every EVEN week of the year is The Dominant Week of Sunshine

  1. The captain will serve, obey and please Sunshine.

  2. During the EVEN weeks of every year, Sunshine will be written as ‘S’unshine. The Captain will be written as ‘c’aptain. Thereafter, when someone asks who the captain is, he can respond by introducing himself in the following manner: “i am the captain, here on earth to pleasure my Sunshine.

  3. The captain will adapt to the poise of demeanour.

  4. Above all else the captain’s primary focus shall be to please Sunshine, hoping that Sunshine finds the captain pleasing in all that he does, whether the captain is in sunshine's presence or not.

  5. The captain is the toyboy of the sunshine – a source of inspiration Sunshine will use to draw out his and her pleasures.

  6. All the captain’s choices shall be based upon whether or not they will please Sunshine first.

  7. The captain’s greatest feeling of satisfaction is realized when he knows he has pleased Sunshine with his creativity and sexuality.

  8. The captain will set aside his jealousy as described above with the term: compersion.

  9. The captain is allowed to suggest ways to further his awakening, his sexuality, and his freedom, verbally or through his messages.

  10. The captain will ask Sunshine for permission to satisfy whatever need he has before acting on it.

  11. The captain’s mouth shall be referred to as 'his best asset' for it will often be used and shared for the pleasure of Sunshine, Her appointees and Himself.

  12. The captains’s sex shall be referred to as 'his 2nd best asset' for it will often be used and shared for the pleasure of Sunshine, Her appointees and Himself.

  13. The captains’s hands shall be referred to as 'his 3rd best asset' for it will often be used and shared for the pleasure of Sunshine, Her appointees and Himself.

  14. The captain’s nipples shall be referred to as 'his 4th best asset' for it will often be used and shared for the pleasure of Sunshine, Her appointees and Himself.

  15. The captain’s bum shall be referred to as ‘his 5th best asset’ for it will often be used and shared for the pleasure of Sunshine, Her appointees and Himself.

  16. In bondage the captain is made free from any sexual taboo. In bondage the captain’s body is restrained but not his mind. The captain’s mind is utterly free, freed from his own will or his own control.

  17. If the captain dreams about, longs for, or fantasizes about showing his assets, about touching his assets, about someone other than Sunshine touches his assets, the captain will ask sunshine for permission by message or speech.

  18. The captain will be free to explore his sexuality and fantasies under the supervision of Sunshine.

  19. Sunshine will protect the captain from any danger or insecurity.

  20. The captain will endure whatever discipline or punishment Sunshine gives him so the captain can become an open minded, sex craving and an awakened sexual being for the pleasure of himself and the others.

  21. The captain must confess to Sunshine when the captain has been naughty so that Sunshine may decide if such violations require him to be disciplined, to be rewarded, or to be punished.

  22. The captain shall learn and endure the whippings Sunshine gives him by using the technique of saying ‘Thank you for teaching me, my Sunshine’ through each of Her strikes brought down upon his flesh.

  23. The captain shall weigh himself every morning in front of Sunshine and the captain's body weight shall never exceed 90kg.

  24. The captain will ask Sunshine for free time out of the contract.

  25. The captain shall be ready in the shortest mean of time if Sunshine asks for him.

  26. The captain must always remember how pleased Sunshine is when others delight in the captain’s wisdom and sexiness as a result of his ability to show off his assets.

  27. The captain shall restrain as much as possible from wearing underwear when going out with his Sunshine.

  28. Should the captain require underwear then he shall only wear red underwear.

  29. The only clothing the captain shall wear will be those items which sunshine finds pleasing to Her.

  30. The captain shall only wear tight T-shirts to reveal his perfect body to his Sunshine. If he must, he will have to purchase smaller size T-shirts.

  31. The captain must never shave off his beard entirely, as Sunshine adores his captain with a beard of a few days.

  32. The captain will maintain his balls neat, tidy and with the least possible hair that could disturb Sunshine when going down on her captain.

  33. The captain shall wear the collar Sunshine gives him with pride for it signifies his devotion to Her.

  34. The Captain shall wear the chains Sunshine gives him as a symbol of his devotion. The captain shall wear them, as required, around his neck, his wrists, his ankles or around his waist.

  35. The captain will always carry with him his wallet containing name cards with the logo of a sun and a phone number (similar in sunshine bag)

  36. Until Sunshine has chosen it is time for her to wear a more permanent mark of love upon his flesh, the captain shall proudly wear Her temporary mark: BRACELET or RING yet to be found and probably only during Sunshine’s first trip back to Europe.

  37. When Sunshine feels the captain is ready and the relationship has progressed to a lifelong commitment, the captain shall be specially prepared to receive Sunshines unique and permanent mark on his flesh, in a place and form of Her choosing. Thereafter, The captain will become Hers, and Sunshine will become his.

  38. The Safe-word “Sunshine please” will be used to bring to the attention of Sunshine that the captain is close to his limit of endurance or acceptance.

  39. The Safe-word “Sunshine please STOP” will be used to bring to the attention of Sunshine that the captain cannot tolerate any further demands. When this word is said, Sunshine’s action will cease completely with immediate effect.

  40. The captain will never touch his assets as his mouth, his sex, his arse or his nipples with his hands or his sex toys in any manner where the captain could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without informing Sunshine by message or speech.

  41. The captain will inform Sunshine of every orgasm, how, where and when he received his orgasm. For every orgasm the captain will send Sunshine a message with the time of orgasm and the details and intensity of his orgasm.

  42. The captain must never orgasm without explicit permission from Sunshine. Permission can be granted beforehand or for a specific time frame.

  43. Sunshine knows the captain’s limitations as in Appendix B-captain stipulated. Update Appendix B-captain once a while.

  44. The captain will watch porn twice a week or more to sexualy and mentaly improve Himself. The captain will notify Sunshine by message of the content of his prefered porn, so Sunshine can learn the captain’s fantasies and longings.

  45. The captain will work on his restlessness with the help of his Sunshine.

  46. ...


Every UNEVEN week of the year is The Dominant Weeks of the Captain

  1. sunshine will serve, obey and please the Captain..

  2. During the UNEVEN weeks of the year, sunshine will be written as ‘s’unshine. The captain will be written as ‘C’aptain. Thereafter, when someone asks who sunshine is, she can respond by introducing herself in the following manner: “i am sunshine, here on earth to pleasure my Captain.

  3. sunshine will adapt to the poise of demeanour.

  4. Above all else sunshine’s primary focus shall be to please the Captain, hoping that the Captain finds sunshine pleasing in all that she does, whether sunshine is in the captain's presence or not.

  5. sunshine is the muse of the Captain – a source of inspiration the Captain will use to draw out his and her pleasures.

  6. All sunshine’s choices shall be based upon whether or not they will please the Captain first.

  7. sunshine’s greatest feeling of satisfaction is realized when she knows she has pleased the Captain with her creativity and sexuality.

  8. sunshine will set aside her jealousy as described above with the term: compersion.

  9. sunshine is allowed to suggest ways to further her awakening, her sexuality, and her freedom, verbally or through her messages or her blog.

  10. sunshine will ask the Captain for permission to satisfy whatever need she has before acting on it.

  11. sunshine’s mouth shall be referred to as 'her best asset' for it will often be used and shared for the pleasure of the Captain, His appointees and herself.

  12. sunshine’s sex shall be referred to as 'her 2nd best asset' for it will often be used and shared for the pleasure of the Captain, His appointees and herself.

  13. sunshine’s asshole shall be referred to as 'her 3rd best asset' for it will often be used and shared for the pleasure of the Captain, His appointees and herself.

  14. sunshine’s breasts shall be referred to as 'her 4th best asset' for it will often be used and shared for the pleasure of The Captain, His appointees and herself.

  15. sunshine’s nipples shall be referred to as 'her 5th best asset' for it will often be used and shared for the pleasure of the Captain, His appointees and herself.

  16. In bondage sunshine is made free from any sexual taboo. In bondage sunshine’s body is restrained but not her mind. sunshine’s mind is utterly free, freed from her own will or her own control.

  17. If sunshine dreams about, longs for, or fantasizes about showing her assets, about touching her assets, about someone other then the Captain touches her assets, sunshine will inform the Captain by message, blog or speech.

  18. sunshine will be free to explore her sexuality and fantasies under the supervision of the Captain.

  19. The Captain will protect sunshine from any danger or insecurity.

  20. sunshine will endure whatever discipline or punishment The Captain gives her so sunshine can become an open minded, sex craving and an awakened sexual being for the pleasure of herself and the others.

  21. sunshine must confess to The Captain when sunshine has been naughty so that The Captain may decide if such violations require her to be disciplined, to be rewarded, or to be punished.

  22. sunshine shall learn and endure the whippings The Captain gives her by using the technique of saying ‘Thank you for teaching me, my Captain’ through each of His strikes brought down upon her flesh.

  23. sunshine shall weigh herself every morning in front of The Captain and sunshine’s body weight shall never exceed 50kg.

  24. sunshine will ask The Captain for free time out of the contract.

  25. sunshine shall be ready in the shortest mean of time if The Captain asks for her.

  26. sunshine must always remember how pleased The Captain is when others delight in sunshine’s sexiness as a result of her ability to show off her assets.

  27. When others show an interest in what sunshine is wearing sunshine must ask them if they would like to see more and then gladly show them what they would like to see – but only after sunshine has received permission from The Captain – for sunshine trusts The Captain’s judgment that such a display is not only reasonable but is safe to do.

  28. sunshine must never be concerned when she feels too much of her flesh is showing, in private or in the general public – however, sunshine can ask The Captain for permission as to how to handle her discomfort.

  29. The only clothing sunshine shall wear will be those items which The Captain finds pleasing to Him: fitting to sunshine’s figure and sunshine’s assets.

  30. sunshine must always wear revealing and sexy clothing of good taste around The Captain unless given permission to do so otherwise. The clothing sunshine wears will always allow easy access to her sex, ass, breasts and nipples, in other words her 'assets'.

  31. sunshine shall never wear a bra except for an open-push-up-bra which reveals sunshine’s breast and nipples. NOT ALWAYS WHEN WITH FRIENDS / FAMILY

  32. sunshine’s nipples shall point through her dress, pullover, shirt, t-shirt,... when The Captain sees fit.

  33. sunshine shall wear the collar The Captain gives her with pride for it signifies her devotion to Him.

  34. sunshine shall wear the chains The Captain gives her as a symbol of her devotion. sunshine shall wear them, as required, around her neck, her wrists, her ankles or around her waist.

  35. sunshine will always carry in her handbag a dildo, lube or massage oil and a condom.

  36. Until The Captain has chosen it is time for her to wear a more permanent mark of love upon her flesh, sunshine shall proudly wear His temporary mark: jewellery, necklace with ring or ankle necklace with ring.

  37. When The Captain feels sunshine is ready and the relationship has progressed to a lifelong commitment, sunshine shall be specially prepared to receive The Captains unique and permanent mark on her flesh, in a place and form of His choosing. Thereafter, sunshine will become His, and The captain will become hers.

  38. The Safe-word “My Captain please” will be used to bring to the attention of The Captain that sunshine is close to her limit of endurance or acceptance.

  39. The Safe-word “My Captain please STOP” will be used to bring to the attention of The Captain that sunshine cannot tolerate any further demands. When this word is said, The Captain’s action will cease completely with immediate effect.

  40. sunshine will never touch her assets as her mouth, her sex, her arse, her breasts or her nipples with her hands or her sex toys in any manner where sunshine could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without informing The Captain by message, blog or speech.

  41. sunshine will inform The Captain of every orgasm, how, where and when she received her orgasm. For every orgasm sunshine will send The Captain a message with the time of orgasm and the details and intensity of her orgasm.

  42. sunshine must never orgasm without explicit permission from The Captain. Permission can be granted beforehand or for a specific time frame.

  43. The Captain knows sunshine’s limitations as in Appendix B-sunshine stipulated. Update Appendix B-sunshine once a while.

  44. sunshine will watch porn twice a week or more to sexually and mentally improve herself. sunshine will notify The Captain by message of the content of her preferred porn, so The Captain can learn sunshine’s fantasies and longings.

  45. sunshine will manage her blog and writing under guidance of The Captain: www.sunshineskink.com . sunshine will provide The Captain on a regular base with adequate content, visuals and dreams. sunshine shall keep her blog up to date.

  46. …The Captain will work positively and teach his sunshine to overcome aspects of negativity that could interfere with the advancement of her shining.

  47. ...


We, The Captain and Sunshine the undersigned have read and understood fully the provisions of this contract. We freely accept the terms of this contract and have acknowledged this by our signatures below.


Sunshines Signature

I, Sunshine,

I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree with the terms above. I understand that I will be commanded, trained, rewarded and punished. I promise to be true and to fulfil the pleasures and desires of The Captain to the best of my abilities.

Signature:____________

Date:________________

Place:_______________


The Captain's Signature

I, The Captain

I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree with the terms above. I understand that I will be commanded, trained, rewarded and punished. I promise to be true and to fulfil the pleasures and desires of Sunshine to the best of my abilities.

Signature:____________

Date:________________

Place:_______________

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